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Chic Geek: Your Nerdy Guy — But Even Better
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A blogumn by Delia Hauser
Let me begin by saying that I don’t support trying to change your loved ones…but gently nudging them can’t hurt. Our nerdy men, whether they are husbands, nephews or anything in between often fumble when it comes to style. On top of this, I can’t count how many times I’ve heard that menswear is just boring and hard to shop for, blah, blah, blah. This just pisses me off! As a professional shopper, I often wish I were I man right now because their clothing is WAY more interesting than women’s.
We have entered an exciting time for chic geeky menswear. Fancy sneakers with a suit are becoming JUST as acceptable as shiny Guccis. And while we’re at it; Suits as daywear! Ties with zip-up hoodies! Nice jeans instead of slacks! Pops of color that no longer scream ,“METRO!” but simply ,“STYLISH!” Leaps and bounds, people! Leaps and bounds! WE no longer have to wear pantyhose; THEY get to wear logo t-shirts and chucks with suits. DO YOU SEE WHAT I MEAN?!
So get your butt out of Structure (does that store even still exist?), go online and buy this stuff I’ve laid out for you. It’s a lot, but frankly, I had to prove that there IS A LOT to choose from. Here are a few guidelines to ease the nerdy loved ones into dressing better and to help you help them:
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[Editor’s Pre-Jump Note: If you haven’t been to Delia’s Christmas Store yet, you’re doing yourself a serious disservice. So many clever things at such reasonable prices that the bad economy won’t get in the way of your Christmas Spirit this year. My favorite: the below mitten stocking, which is so cute I could DIE. Check it out here and go here for other Christmas ideas.]
RULES OF STYLE FOR NERDY MEN
1. For pete’s sake, buy the right size! He’s a freaking medium, not an XL. Just because he wore a 40R when he last BOUGHT a suit…you get what I mean. Measure, measure, measure.
SUITS: Measurement around the chest is or is close to the number. S means short, R means regular and L means long. It REALLY is that simple.
SHIRTS: Measure around the neck at the base. For the sleeve length, have them bend their arm a little at the elbow and measure from the base of the neck in BACK over the shoulder, bent elbow and down the arm to the wrist.
PANTS: Measure around the waist 1 inch below the belly button and the inseam (from the crotch to just above the floor).
2. Learn to tie a tie here and demystify international sizing here!
3. Start small. A fun tie (no, I don’t mean Donald Duck) or colorful argyle socks and one or two color pops at a time. The rest will come; give them time to CARE.
4. When mixing patterns (Oh, yes, please do!), the only hard and fast rule is to keep one small, like a pinstripe, and one large, like a polka dot or plaid. That’s it. Just mix the scale of the patterns and everything will be okay.
5. Finish off looks with fun accessories. And tell him AGAIN, “This doesn’t make you “metro”, it makes you a ‘new classic.’ Especially if your cuff links are magnum shells or your tie tack is a typewriter key!”
6. Please never buy anything from Ed Hardy, Smet or Christian Audigier. It is just as trashy as wearing sweatpants with words across the butt in public.
YAY! Get shopping!
START HERE:
1. Penguin sweater – $135.00
2. Paul Smith cardigan – $280.00
3. Penguin jacket – $195.00
4. Converse by John Varvatos jacket – $160.00
5. Paul Smith shirt – $245.00
6. Feral Empire t-shirt – $20.00
7. Modern Amusement shirt – $115.00
8. Vital Industries t-shirt – $26.00
9. Penguin polo – $90.00
10. Cubist Literature t-shirt – $25.00
11. Rogan trouser – $290.00
12. Ben Sherman pants – $129.00
13. Ben Sherman pants – $109.00
14. Penguin pants – $125.00
15. A.P.C. -$155.00
16. Fred Perry trouser – $178.00
17. Paul Smith socks – $38.00
18. Barneys New York socks – $34.00
19. Camper boots – $151.00
20. Converse high-tops – $74.95
21. John Varvatos for Converse low-tops – $76.00
22. Vans boots – $64.95
23. Marc Jacobs oxfords – $252.00
FINISH OFF WITH THESE:
1. Allyn Scura vintage frames – $65.00
2. Chigal vintage safety glasses– $30.00
3. Allyn Scura vintage frames – $145.00
4. Allyn Scura vintage frames – $100.00
5. Allyn Scura vintage frames – $90.00
6. Tie Lab tie – $30.00
7. J L Stephens Couture tie tack– $4.00
8. Paul Smith tie – $135.00
9. Dabble Designs tie tack – $7.00
10. Whimsical Bazaar – $18.00
11. Buncombe Buckles – $54.00
12. Penguin watch – $175.00
13. Penguin watch – $155.00
14. Dmented cuff links – $35.00
15. Brave Moonman pouch – $18.00
16. mmsomewhere photo wallet – $18.00
17. Penguin hat – $48.00
18. Zerkahloostrah bag – $95.00
19. Apipi’s Boutique bag – $49.00
GIVE THEM THESE:
1. Lego calendar – $14.00
2. Red Leaf soap and shave cube – $11.00
3. My Robot calculator – $20.00
4. Michelle Kendrick painting – $60.00
5. Ashley G and Drew – $35.00
6. Olivetti Manual Typewriter – $140.00
7. Sheila’s Things shave set – $19.50
8. Lomography Diana F+ Camera – $95.00
9. Jon Carling print – $10.00
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You couldn’t have spelled it out any clearer. And this stuff kicks ass. I think I’ll just print out those pages and circulate them as my christmas list.
You couldn’t have spelled it out any clearer. And this stuff kicks ass. I think I’ll just print out those pages and circulate them as my christmas list.
Is it wrong that this post kind of makes me want to start dressing like a guy? Bringing back Annie Hall — but fitted, b/c Delia says so.
Also, I think that lego calendar and robot calculator would be a great gift for anyone. Kind of bummed that Clark already reads FaN, b/c I’d totally get this for him for Christmas if not.
Good idea Jeff, but alas, you will be getting your usual handmade gift from me this year- AND YOU WILL LOVE IT DAMN IT.
And Ernessa, I was totally channeling Clark when I picked that robot!
I really want those MJ oxfords for myself but i doubt they come in a men’s size 6…
Good idea Jeff, but alas, you will be getting your usual handmade gift from me this year- AND YOU WILL LOVE IT DAMN IT.
And Ernessa, I was totally channeling Clark when I picked that robot!
I really want those MJ oxfords for myself but i doubt they come in a men’s size 6…
I can feel Ernessa making my Christmas list from here.
I can feel Ernessa making my Christmas list from here.
Thanks for this; I’m constantly fighting the urge to go oversized and I get so skittish about mixing stripes and plaids/prints/polka dots/other stripes! Blacks and browns freak me out too, not to mention horizontal stripes. Blame my southern mother.
I should say that I feel rather proud of myself for almost buying one of those photo wallets for myself in a gift shop a month or two ago. The only thing that stopped me was a concern that my typical habit of overstuffing my billfold would tear that thing up. They are pretty great though!
Thanks for this; I’m constantly fighting the urge to go oversized and I get so skittish about mixing stripes and plaids/prints/polka dots/other stripes! Blacks and browns freak me out too, not to mention horizontal stripes. Blame my southern mother.
I should say that I feel rather proud of myself for almost buying one of those photo wallets for myself in a gift shop a month or two ago. The only thing that stopped me was a concern that my typical habit of overstuffing my billfold would tear that thing up. They are pretty great though!
Ha! Look at all those good ol’ southern rules!
Try to forget them all. :-)
Ha! Look at all those good ol’ southern rules!
Try to forget them all. :-)
The Robot calculator!… a girl nerd like me would love one of those too!
The Robot calculator!… a girl nerd like me would love one of those too!
I’m really glad to see the Ed Hardy rule! I’m always perplexed when I see that stuff in store windows or worse on people, I just don’t get it.
I’m really glad to see the Ed Hardy rule! I’m always perplexed when I see that stuff in store windows or worse on people, I just don’t get it.
Agreed about Ed Hardy, Katrina. I think it’s one of those unfortunate situations where only one guy can actually pull it off (in this case, the fashionable-but-freakishly-small-and-skinny Lil Wayne), but for whatever reason, many other people try to emulate it.
In reference to Ed Hardy- I also think that some how in the hip hop world it makes more sense, but in LA, it is mostly booby implanted blonds (men AND women) wearing ALL of it at once. Its just a mess.
On top of all of that, they closed a lovely little antique store on my corner and opened the flagship store there a year or so ago and it was really sad…
In reference to Ed Hardy- I also think that some how in the hip hop world it makes more sense, but in LA, it is mostly booby implanted blonds (men AND women) wearing ALL of it at once. Its just a mess.
On top of all of that, they closed a lovely little antique store on my corner and opened the flagship store there a year or so ago and it was really sad…
This list rocks and the accolades are coming from a woman who has made over the geek men in her life so well even their mamas were impressed.
This list rocks and the accolades are coming from a woman who has made over the geek men in her life so well even their mamas were impressed.
It takes a lot to impress a man’s mom…trust me, I have SOME EXPERIENCE THERE… Good job.
It takes a lot to impress a man’s mom…trust me, I have SOME EXPERIENCE THERE… Good job.
Does this mean I have to go out and buy the robot calculator on my own? How is this fair? Say it for me, my friends: YES, WE CAN.
Does this mean I have to go out and buy the robot calculator on my own? How is this fair? Say it for me, my friends: YES, WE CAN.
Clark, you should set up a registry for the robot for your birthday so more than one person reading this doesn’t get it for you…
Clark, you should set up a registry for the robot for your birthday so more than one person reading this doesn’t get it for you…