Uncircumcised 1 Minute Man – Ask Dr. Miro: What You Didn’t Learn...

Dear Dr. Miro, My boyfriend is a One Minute Man. He is also uncircumcised. Is there any connection or is he just crappy in bed? Frustrated in England Dear FiE, Quick answer: he is crappy in bed. There is no correlation between being uncircumcised and not lasting longer than a few minutes. If...

YEASTY! Ask Dr. Miro: What You Didn’t Learn In Health Class

Dear Dr. Miro, I can’t figure out why I have yeast infections, lately. I think I’m eating right and I’m not messing around with a bunch of dirty boys like usual. I’ve been using my Rabbit a lot but seriously, that can’t cause yeast problems, can it? Sincerely, Itchy Bread Factory in My Pants...

Sapphic Spring Is In the Air: Ask Dr. Miro [What You Didn’t Learn In H...

Dear Dr. Miro, I have decided that this Spring I shall have my lesbian experience. It just seems like something I should do. Suggestions? Sincerely, Cara Pitt Munche Dear CPM, Your question is more of a Michael Scott Declaration. Simply replace Bankruptcy with LESBIAN Experience.  Let’s...

Peg Him! Ask Dr. Miro [What You Didn't Learn in Health Class]

Dear Dr. Miro, I think my boyfriend wants me to give it to him up his pooper. Does that make him gay or just a freak? This kind of grosses me out but mainly I’m confused. I think he should be happy just putting his wiener inside me since he claims to like women. Sincerely, Y. Anna Ew Dear...

Hung Like A Gorilla: Ask Dr. Miro [What You Didn’t Learn in Health Cla...

Dear Dr. Miro, I am with a man who pleases me so much in EVERY way. The only thing is, well, the size of his thing. He is way sensitive about it and has asked if he is big enough for me, and all that. He even asks if most of my past boyfriends were bigger than him! I want him to shut up about...

Sex Through the Floorboards: Ask Dr. Miro [What You Didn’t Learn in He...

Dear Dr. Miro, My new apartment is right above my landlord’s and noise travels through the shoddy wooden floors way too clearly. I am nervous about using my vibrator or having any Gentlemen Callers over for fear of the sounds traveling into The Man’s ears. What are my options? Sincerely,...

Ask Dr. Miro: Sex Makes You Smarter? [What You Didn’t Learn In Health ...

Dear Dr. Miro, My boyfriend tells me he read an article that says sex can make you smarter and he could assist me in benefiting from this scientific fact. I think he is calling me stupid while pressuring me to be more sexual. Is he full of crap? Sincerely, Blonde and Pressured Dear BAP, In...

Ask Dr. Miro: Travel & Jealousy [What You Didn’t Learn In Health ...

Dear Dr. Miro, I LOVE to travel. My boyfriend can never go. He makes me feel bad whenever I want to go away. Then I get resentful of being stuck to his schedule and bank account. He accuses me of cheating on him when I do go away so the whole thing becomes really annoying. I’d love to do...

Ask Dr. Miro: Where’s MY True Love? [What You Didn’t Learn In Health C...

Dear Dr. Miro, I am a 44 year old woman who has never had a meaningful relationship. Every time I date someone new and I think they are different from the last they turn out to be just the same or worse. What gives? Confused, Marie De J’Vous Dear MDJ, One of the keys to finding a meaningful...

Ask Dr. Miro: Email Cheater [What You Didn’t Learn In Health Class]

Dear Dr. Miro, I read my boyfriend’s emails and found a lot of very sexually suggestive correspondences between him and other women. I confronted him about them and he denied that anything happened. He seems to think I should just get over it but I can’t seem to. I can’t figure out what I did...

Ask Dr. Miro: Organic Jill Off [What You Didn’t Learn In Health Class]...

Dear Dr. Miro, If I use bananas or veggies to masturbate with, does it matter if they are organic? From, Miss Chiquita Dear MC, Here is a good rule of thumb: never insert anything into yourself that you would not put in your mouth. Yes, different things comes out of different orifices but...

Ask Dr. Miro: Fantasy Threesome [What you Didn’t Learn in Health Class...

Dear Dr. Miro, In order for me to get an orgasm – or even be close to getting an orgasm – I have to think about having a threesome with my long-term boyfriend all of the time, otherwise, nothing happens. Is this really bad? It would be nice to come with just who’s there (meaning my...

Ask Dr. Miro: Do Men Have a “Special” Spot? [What You Didn...

Dear Dr. Miro, Is there a “special” spot for men on the penis that is more sensitive than other parts? Also, how do you know how rough your man wants his junk handled? Sincerely, Kenya Makett Goodner Dear KMG, There are so many spots on the penis that can be considered “special” but what you...

Ask Dr. Miro: Keeping the Sexy Over Long Distance [What you Didn’t Lea...

Dear Dr. Miro, My girlfriend is going to Europe on business for THREE MONTHS and I am freaking out. I want to do something really special for her before she leaves and wonder what I should do. I love her so much, but am nervous she won’t remember everything we’ve had together, these past five...

Ask Dr. Miro: Are You My Orgasm? [What You Didn’t Learn In Health Clas...

Dear Dr. Miro, How do I know if I’ve had an orgasm? Sincerely, Juana Gnogh Dear JG, Ah, wondering whether you have experienced La Petit Mort, or the Little Death, as the French call it, eh? To those who have had the privilege of coming, either once, or on a regular basis, it sounds a bit like...

Ask Dr. Miro: Ding Dong Dilemma [What You Didn’t Learn In Health Class...

Dear Dr. Miro, I recently had an intimate encounter in which my partner’s penis was, well, odd.  I mean the size was fine, the curvature was a little more to one side (which is fine), but there seemed to be something… off about it.  Like, instead of a regular helmet shape, it was...

Ask Dr. Miro: Getting Off in the Library [What You Didn’t Learn In Hea...

Dear Dr. Miro, I’ve always wanted to get off with someone (besides myself) in the library. How can I get my boyfriend to do this? I am totally up for returning the favor but he’s really shy. All those shelves of books with everyone being so serious and having to be quiet and studious and,...

Ask Dr. Miro: Thanksgiving Splosher [What You Didn’t Learn in Health C...

Dear Dr. Miro, My boyfriend keeps referring to something called “sploshing.” He says that with Thanksgiving coming we should take advantage of all the stuffing and cranberry sauces that are bound to be left over. What is sploshing, and should I be concerned? Respectfully, Very Nervous...

Ask Dr. Miro: No Freak(in’) Fantasies [What You Didn’t Learn In Health...

Dear Dr. Miro, I have no desire to have sex with anyone. I’m actually pretty happy with the way I am with no sexual urges or fantasies and feel like I have always been this way.  I get told by my friends, “This is impossible!” and “You must be in denial.” I have looked up stuff online and...

Ask Dr. Miro: Kiss ME! [What You Didn’t Learn in Health Class]

Dear Dr. Miro, My girlfriend won’t kiss me. Eight years ago, when we first started dating, we were all over each other and now all she wants is for me to go down on her with a dildo, sometimes. She just barely touches me and this is making me way upset and it’s also making me feel ugly....

Ask Dr. Miro: Genital Whats??? [What You Didn’t Learn in Health Class]...

Dear Dr. Miro, About 7 months ago, my ex-boyfriend told me I gave him genital warts. When I went to get tested, I was told that I did not have any warty craziness. Every time I hear anything mentioned about STDs, I get frightened. I have taken so many tests at clinics and they always come...

Ask Dr. Miro: Sexy Anything Role Play [What You Didn’t Learn In Health...

Dear Dr. Miro, I want to get into some role-playing with my girlfriend but don’t know how to start. Am I a creep for wanting to see her dressed like a schoolgirl or stewardess? I don’t want her to think I’m not into her out of costume because I am, but I just want a little something different...

Ask Dr. Miro: Hot For Women [What You Didn’t Learn In Health Class]

Dear Dr. Miro, I am totally straight but for the past few months, I have been fantasizing about being with women. I mean, REALLY being with another woman.  ANY woman!  All women! I can’t stop thinking about what it would be like to have some hot chick completely ravish me and then ME making...

Ask Dr. Miro: The Sex Numbers Game [What You Didn’t Learn In Health Cl...

Dear Dr. Miro, My boyfriend has been hinting about wanting to know how many people I’ve slept with. Should I share my special number? I’ve had my share of sex partners and I’m worried that he may think I’m slutty. In fact, I don’t really even know how many folks I’ve had. Then, I...

Ask Dr. Miro: Vibrator vs Home Grown Penis [What You Didn’t Learn in H...

Dear Dr. Miro, If a woman uses a vibrator regularly, does it make it harder for a man to give her an orgasm? All I have is my penis. I am concerned that may not be enough for my new special lady friend. Sincerely, Richard “Ol’ Fashioned” Johnson Dear Dick, First off, I don’t mean to make...

Ask Dr. Miro: Dildo Guide to Prevent Cobwebs [What You Didn’t Learn In...

Hi Dr. Miro, I’m in my early 30′s and have hit a dry spell where sexual activity is concerned. It’s been over a year since I last had sex and one of my gay male friends keeps warning me that I am getting cobwebs on my kitty. Oh those sassy gay friends! Lately I have been...

Ask Dr. Miro: Sexy Time Bruiser [What You Didn’t Learn in Health Class...

Dear Dr. Miro, Sometimes after vigorous sex (involving mega g-spot stimulation) I experience painful urination the next day.  The first time it happened I thought I was getting a urinary tract infection and drank a bunch of cranberry juice but then it got better after a day or two.  Would...

Ask Dr. Miro: Sex With Friend & Creepy Hubby Texts [What You Didn...

Dear Dr. Miro, I had just started seeing somebody I like A LOT, when I went back home to visit mi familia. One night, I had sex with a friend while her husband watched. It was really hot but now that I’m back, he’s sending me inappropriate texts that are making me muy...

Adventures of a Sex Therapist: Speed Shrinking – August ‘10

. a monthly blogumn by Dr. Miro Gudelsky Hello FaN readers. I am so excited to be here. What a privilege to join such an elite group of folks! As a Manhattan-based sex therapist, I thought it would be fun to share some of the adventures I stumble into. This month, I participated in Susan...

Ask Dr. Miro: What You Didn’t Learn in Health Class

. an 18+ blogumn by Miro Gudelsky Hi FaN readers. Dr. Miro here ready with answers to all your sexual questions. I can’t wait to hear from you! Our first question is on how to keep baby making sexy… Dear Dr. Miro: My husband and I are trying to make a baby. This means we have to have sex...