/ A blogumn by Redheaded Stepchild I have these two friends. One – let’s call him Future Spouse A –is marrying his man this fall.  He’s a good friend who I perform with frequently, and he has got Organizational Skillz.  He and his fiancé were engaged within six months or so of their first date [...]

A blogumn by Redheaded Stepchild As previously noted, I am now a watcher of wedding shows. When Law & Order and Doctor Who aren’t on in our home, the TV is tuned to any one of the many shows on WEtv that is targeted to women who love weddings. Amazing Wedding Cakes, Bridezillas, My Fair [...]

. A blogumn by Redheaded Stepchild I recently read an interview with hot lesbian host Rachel Maddow in which she said that she sometimes forgets that she and her partner were gay. I don’t. Maybe it’s easier to forget when you commute between the West Village and western Mass., two areas notoriously friendly to Teh [...]

. A blogumn by Reheaded Stepchild I’m feeling nauseous today.  It could be an overabundance of alcohol on a system plagued by reflux, or it could be my stomach angrily venting about the cost of renting space for a wedding. My dream was to have an apartment big enough for one hundred people and have [...]

. A blogumn by Redheaded Stepchild Recipe for a for a Queer Wedding (or Quedding, if you prefer): 1 part fabulous location 2 parts uninhibited liquor consumption 1 part food with which to mitigate effects of uninhibited liquor consumption 3 parts friends and family with which to consume said liquor 5 parts smart, funny, gorgeous [...]

/ A blogumn by Redheaded Stepchild Hallo, Fierce and Nerdy community! I’m Redheaded Stepchild, a 30 year-old queer singer/actor living in Brooklyn.  The fabulous Ernessa invited me to blog here bi-weekly about the rigors and joys of planning a wedding/commitment ceremony, as I’ll be getting hitched to my ladylove, BabyPowerDyke (note: she’s not a baby; [...]