Cum On Already! [Ask Dr. Miro: What You Didn’t Learn In Health Class]
Dear Dr. Miro,
One of my newest lovers claims it always takes him forever to come. What is up with that and how can I help move things along? Is this a thing? I got sh*t to do. What if I need a quickie?
Woman On the Go!
What does he mean by forever? Make sure not to use condoms or lubricants that have numbing agents. Certainly some guys take longer than others – this is human – but I wonder why he was even telling you this. Since this relationship is in the beginnings, it is possible he was nervous and simply babbling. Perhaps he was trying to impress you and wrongly believed you would be intrigued by his claims of stamina. Do not put too much thought into him until you have decided you are sexually compatible. If you need a quickie, I suggest going to one of your other lovers until you figure this one out. After all this, if you still need suggestions about speeding things up, get back to me.
Lust & Happiness,
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