How Big is My WHAT? [Ask Dr. Miro: What You Didn’t Learn In Health Class]
Dear Dr. Miro,
How much wiener can a vagina handle? I just discovered that the guy I’m dating is overly “blessed” & I’m worried that I won’t be able to handle this. It’s not my first time or anything like that but I’m just wondering how big my hoo-hoo actually is.
Most vaginas can fit a lot more in them than we give them credit for. Just think: a baby can go through there and chances are that your fella’s penis is not that big. That is not to say a baby is a comfortable object to have passing through your lady parts, rather, this elastic muscular canal is pretty amazing and can handle a lot. Masters & Johnson referred to the vagina as “potential space” because it is capable of expanding. Think of a balloon when it is flat. The sides are folded onto each other. Then, as air fills it, the balloon expands. Your vagina does this too! During sexual excitement, not only are your inner walls lubricating, but they are also rising apart, creating a somewhat tenting effect. Pretty amazing how bodies do this sort of thing!
As for the actual size of your vagina, although there is great variety amongst human females, I can give you some basic numbers. When not turned on, a vagina in a child bearing aged woman is approximately 3 inches in the front and 4 inches in the back. While you are becoming more and more aroused, your vag will start enlarging. The degree varies immensely and has a lot to do with what you are used to putting inside there.
The important thing is to TAKE IT SLOW. Ease into your sexual experience. Make sure your lover gets you all juicy with some oral and finger action. The best position for the actual intra-vaginal penile containment would be for you to be on top in order to control how much of him is entering you. Do not try to take all his penis into you at once. Enjoy the ride, so to speak. Voice your concerns to this big man, as I am sure that even if this has not been an issue in the past for him, it will, at the very least, turn him on. As an aside: feel free to say that to men even when they do not have “armadillos in their trousers”.
Lust & Happiness,
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