Ask Dr. Miro: Vibrator vs Home Grown Penis [What You Didn’t Learn in Health Class]

Dear Dr. Miro,

If a woman uses a vibrator regularly, does it make it harder for a man to give her an orgasm? All I have is my penis. I am concerned that may not be enough for my new special lady friend.

Sincerely,
Richard “Ol’ Fashioned” Johnson

Dear Dick,

First off, I don’t mean to make assumptions because it may well be that all you have is your penis, but I believe you may have quite a few other parts that will help bring this new friend to orgasm. What about the strongest muscle in your entire body: the tongue?  There are also your fingers and PLEASE let us not forget all those sexy things you can say to her to get this woman in a passionate frenzy.

As to your main query, the answer isn’t as simple as you think. On one hand, her lovely lady parts may not be as sensitive to the touch as say, an un-vibrated Vulva.  This could make it more difficult to reach orgasm for a lass who has been working it out IF you are depending purely on friction. However, a woman who is pleasuring herself on a regular basis is going to know what turns her on, off and over. How ideal in a lover! She is not going to expect you to just automatically know what to do in this unchartered territory of HER. She knows her body and will be able to guide you through: straight to that magical spot that she has already discovered!

Don’t let yourself get too anxious about being enough for Ms. Sexy. Just go with the moment and enjoy. Remember,  just like you know what feels good for YOU, she knows what feels good for her. Remember to listen to what her body tells you, keep an open mind and you will be great!

Lust & Happiness,
Dr. Miro

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